After listening to my spec lament about the 'lack of decent black men' I have a PSA: Black women don't believe the media, there is no dating crisis concerning black women! It is a facade. The power of our media lies in its ability to manipulate data, merge said data with dissenting opinion which gives birth to a false crisis.
You all are the epitome of intelligence, beauty, and grace, you are the world's most copied woman. So what if black men are dating outside 'our' race, its their decision not yours.
Before you ask 'why am I still single' do you 'want' to be in a relationship or do you 'need' to be in one? Of course it would be nice to have someone to be with, however you don't need to have your worth validated by the attention of the opposite sex or be devalued by the lack of attention.
There's nothing to be concerned about enjoy being single and don't force the game. Nobody asking you: "Who you with?, Or where you going?" Enjoy not being tied down, get to know yourself, date a little go explore your city find a hobby. The greatest irony about crisis is that women aren't utilizing their options correctly, while you are fretting about the men who don't view you as an option you are overlooking the men who want to make you a priority. However just know that you won't be compatible with everyone so make sure u have realistic expectations.
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